tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5679510245284968389.post3023930773012115691..comments2024-03-20T05:41:12.410-04:00Comments on The Ice Doesn't Care: Selecting a coachUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5679510245284968389.post-35883813296505325972011-12-16T09:05:17.687-05:002011-12-16T09:05:17.687-05:00I got my first coach entirely at random, at my rin...I got my first coach entirely at random, at my rink the uninitiated are told to leave their details with the head coach, who then gets someone to call you (I'm unsure exactly how this is decided). Fortunately, she was a good fit for me, very patient and encouraging for an increadibly nervous beginner! <br /><br />Sadly, my first coach left the rink nearly two years ago now. This time, I knew more about the kind of coach i wanted and also had more experience of club and group lessons from most of the coaches. Admittedly, there a some coaches I would never consider due to rink politics.<br /><br />My current coach has taught me ever since. She is very patient with me, and calms me down when I get frustrated at not being able to do something. She pushes me to go further while understanding my limitations (or humouring them anyway!).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5679510245284968389.post-8928923161606551782011-12-09T12:09:46.774-05:002011-12-09T12:09:46.774-05:00Once I decided I wanted to start one to one lesson...Once I decided I wanted to start one to one lessons in addition to group lessons, the most important things to me were...<br /><br />1) Level - only level 2 and above coaches can enter you for tests / competitions in the UK.<br />2) Availability - the 1st coach I tried didn't have a slot free at a time I could make!<br />3) Style of teaching! This was by far the most important thing to me!<br /><br />Between the drop in group Skate UK lessons and the block booked group lessons at my rink, I was taught by 85%+ of the coaches at my rink at some point in the 4/5 months it took me to complete Skate UK. I decided to look for a one to one coach in addition to group lessons once I started Passport levels. <br /><br />This meant I had a decent idea of their different styles of teaching. I didn't want a "shouty" coach as I find that demoralising. I wanted one that was very (very!) patient and who would be very calming (as I can get horribly frustrated with myself if things don't work). Them getting frustrated about it too would just make things worse. I also wanted a coach who would push me sometimes too!<br /><br />I also wanted one I understood! A couple of the coaches I had a lot in group lessons are very good but their way of explaining and my way of understanding things didn't mesh very well. Both are very visual teachers, who demonstrate things a lot. This can be very helpful... but I often need to understand the different parts of the move broken down into small bits, or explained several ways before I "get" it and they sometimes found this quite difficult to do. I was (and still am) quite friendly with one of them but it was a little awkward when I chose the coach I have now. I think she was disappointed that I didn't pick her but we are fine now!<br /><br />The 1st coach I asked (who teaches free only) didn't have a slot available I could make so I asked coach 2 (a dance coach who also teaches free too)! She is great and I now do more dance than free so that worked out well! :P<br /><br />I skated as a child at the same rink and have warm memories of my current coach from group lessons when I was wee. She doesn't remember me at all from then but we 1st met 31 years ago! I dread her ever retiring!<br /><br />Oh dear... Sorry for the essay! TakaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5679510245284968389.post-41186601683760634322011-12-09T08:57:26.695-05:002011-12-09T08:57:26.695-05:00@AMS- I think there are coaches who will turn down...@AMS- I think there are coaches who will turn down students (and not just adults) they don't find "worthy", but for the most part, there are also coaches who teach beginners. <br /><br />One of my previous coaches told me that she much prefered an adult beginner, whose hand she held as she shuffled around the rink (20 minutes a lap!) because they had interesting conversation, than the 3 year old whose parent wouldn't put her in groups. It is very difficult to keep a 3-year old, who can barely march, engaged for 30 minutes.<br /><br />Babbette- I think you are right that watching all the coaches is a good idea. As an adult, there is no need to jump right to a coach. You won't miss the Olympics for lack of training time. Figuring out each coaches style is a very good idea, even before approaching them for a trial. I like the idea of a trial 6 months, around here- we do a trial lesson with a few coaches, then let them know which one we'll be taking from. I'm on my third coach- the first coach was more of a "fun" coach, but I really want clean technique, so after a couple of years, when I was put off ice for an injury I found it a good time to make a break (it is SO difficult to leave a coach...), the second one was a great fit, but after another injury she told me she wasn't going to coach at all anymore (true to her word, she didn't just dump me, but everyone), now I'm with coach 3. This was a bit of a "who is left that I can afford" match, but I do think we work very well together. He graduates from college in 2 years, so I'll be coachless again...Jessimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05442665425448000014noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5679510245284968389.post-21327054642434351612011-12-09T02:27:51.064-05:002011-12-09T02:27:51.064-05:00I have found coaches that took me on as a raw begi...I have found coaches that took me on as a raw beginner. I agree, there are lots of coaches that will take on an adult who can't do a crossover. <br /><br />My experience with Rink 2, I think, may have been due to rink culture. It was not an adult friendly rink. Rink 3 is a carnival of adult skating in comparison.Babbette Duboisehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05721808053479678691noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5679510245284968389.post-11990271709160013482011-12-09T02:12:42.233-05:002011-12-09T02:12:42.233-05:00"Are your skills such that a coach would find..."Are your skills such that a coach would find you worth his/her time?"<br /><br />I have heard this one before, and I think it is largely a myth. It is a very lucky coach indeed who makes enough money that they can turn down students (unless they have a "day job"). Most rinks don't have a Brian Orser. And the coach who is good at teaching adults is particularly unlikely to only teach very advanced students, since the intersection of the small set of adult skaters and the small set of advanced skaters is extremely small.AMShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00947333443042080187noreply@blogger.com